Some Thoughts.
Some thoughts that came to my mind while studying...
1. He Who Has Mastered The Wink.
We don't know how they learn the technique but some guys really have The Wink. There's an art to this wink and getting it right can be tricky. It's like an invitation to some unspoken secret.
2. He Takes Care Of Himself.
The bottom line: If he takes good care of himself, he's likely to take good care of his partner (or at least helps to keep her motivated to do so). And by this, I am referring to cleanliness freaks.
3. He's Got Style.
What's attractive in a guy is that he has a style at all, a way of dressing that reflects in some way who he is and what he's into. A guy who wakes up hum-drum and throws the same dingy shirt and pair of jeans on every day? Not. Sexy. At. All.
4. He Is Affectionate.
Though we women try not to let on, affection (be it an arm around the shoulder or hand on the leg) lights us up like fireflies. Consider it your secret weapon. It also includes expressing your feelings through words, such as "I care for you". It's amazing how many hot men fall short of sexy just for lack of articulating and showing their love. Let's just put it this way: There are guys who reach out to their partner while driving, and there are guys who keep both hands on the wheel and eyes straight ahead. Which one do you prefer?
5. He Laughs Loud, Often.
Comedy is highly enticing. It's worth noting though that there are different types of humour. The insecure crap comedy that's based on putting others down or calling people names doesn't win us (or at least, ME) over. Yes, I condemn Stephen Chow. But give us fun-loving, belly-jiggling jokes and laughter, you're really on the way to getting me en route to my happiness.
6. He Takes Pride In Stuff He Does.
By putting in his 100% in things that he does, even in his everyday life goes to imply that he's probably a man worth keeping. And by that, I mean all the little nitty gritty stuff that he has took effort to observe even to my least knowledge and then saving up all effort to make you happy. Oh, in addition, I'm referring to the 上进心 that a guy is equipped with.
I suddenly realise, I seem to be thinking alot recently. Okay. Back to the dreaded books. Boo.
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